Surrender to the Divine
Life is full of ups and downs. Sometimes discomfort is inevitable, but suffering is optional. What causes suffering? Resistance to what is... the present moment. The desire for things to be different. At times we are mistaken - we think we have control over the present moment. If circumstances become "unfavorable", we will fight tooth and nail to change it. Sometimes this works, but other times the more we fight it, the more we suffer. This is no way to live.
Patanjali's Yoga Sutras teach us, "SAMADHI SIDDHIR ISVARA PRANIDHANAT."
Turning the focus to the Self brings about complete absorption in the Divine.
There are many ways to describe isvara pranidhana... "thy will be done", "let go and let God" or even the country song "Jesus take the wheel."
"After one has exhausted one's own resources and still not succeeded, one turns to the Lord for help for he is the Source of all power. The student prays, I do not know what is good for me. Thy will be done." -BKS Iyengar
How does one surrender? Breathe. Accept you don't have control. Trust that when you align with your Highest Self, the Universe will align with you to help you fulfill your dharma - our purpose in life. Surrender your identity and ego. Surrender your sense of otherness. When we completely let go, we melt back in to God... melt back into Cosmic Consciousness.
This doesn't mean life will suddenly be filled with cupcakes and rainbows. Life is still filled with challenges. However, our perception has changed. Instead of being stuck in the small self, we re-member the Universal Self and trust the order of all things.